Break-ups

[smaz_x]

people always talk about break-ups over msn and txt messages and all that.
so because i'm just that bored.

who's been broken up with over msn or txt ?


i know i have been.
everything was fine (or at least i thought so) and then while talking to him over msn he said "hey i don't think this is working, i think we should just be friends"

ok
your turn :)

[shaheen]

Through sms yeah, can't remember if it ever happened through msn.

[Emad]

You gotta be pretty fucking low to break up with somebody over the internet. Thats my oppinion, it's never happened to me before and in my days i dont ever recall doing it to anybody, but if i have then i should hang my head in shame.

[brown sugar miki]

Well, the guy goes on msn "i need to talk to you, i dont think we should be together blah blah blah" then he did the actual explaining over the phone.

[Soytari]

What if you ment the person thru the net ? Or Mirc ?

But then again it is low...

Emad id never break up wif u (L)

[[ U N ] _ m c n z ]]

My ex broke up with me via email, while I was overseas and didn't have access to the net. I only found it a week after it was sent, which was when I got back home.

[brown sugar miki]

^^wow..that really sucks. It would be bad if you were like "oh i miss her so much, i cant wait to get back to Australia to see her" and then you find out she doesnt wanna be with you anymore. Couldn't she wait an extra week to tell you in person? or was it that urgent that she had to break up with you right at that moment.

[[ U N ] _ m c n z ]]

^^wow..that really sucks. It would be bad if you were like "oh i miss her so much, i cant wait to get back to Australia to see her" and then you find out she doesnt wanna be with you anymore. Couldn't she wait an extra week to tell you in person? or was it that urgent that she had to break up with you right at that moment.
that's exactly how it was. i wasn't really looking forward to anything about coming back except that i would see her. anyway enough about that. i'm glad we broke up now so all is good.. other peoples stories now :)

[smaz_x]

i still reckon over the phone is pretty low

[Nalah]

My ex broke up with me over msn. =[ Argh... But it's all good now, we're friends =S.

[**BeKi**]

ive been broken up with over msn before, only it was going on 'break' which ended up being the end of the relationship lol. but yeah

i also broke up with someone over msn. i think it was last year, but it was because we didnt call each other and hardly ever saw each other, it was the most immature relationship so it wasnt that bad that i did it over msn lol. but yeh

[[ U N ] _ m c n z ]]

ive been broken up with over msn before, only it was going on 'break' which ended up being the end of the relationship lol. but yeah

i also broke up with someone over msn. i think it was last year, but it was because we didnt call each other and hardly ever saw each other, it was the most immature relationship so it wasnt that bad that i did it over msn lol. but yeh
lol. but yeh

[Miss aLaNa]

yeaa ive been broken up with over msn...but we are still good friends:)

[jason_]

Umm i've never used sms that's just retarded... i always used to say it should be in person AT LEAST but things kind of changed going through a few relationships. The worst i've done is initiated break-up convo over msn which moved on to the phone in which all the explaining was done...

Break-ups suck anyway... they shouldn't be done at all, just non-existent. You should just have the option to like... implode, or just pop into a parallel universe when you wanna break up with the person you're with. That's my lovely opinion :)

[~BrUneTtE_BoOty~]

i had an x break up with me coz he cheated.. told me n dnt wana hurt me anymore.. n i also have a x go overseas n come bak n said he liked another chick.. n did that thru msg,.. guys sux.. but we love em so much

[Mickey]

rofl, sms is harsh. I have been dumped over msn once.

[denis]

iv never been dumped through msn or text, but iv dumped over msn or text.
its the easiest way out.

[vivian]

er cant say its ever happened to me..actually come to think of it no ones ever broken up with me = ( and i dont mean that in a -im so cool i break peoples hearts- sorta way..

[Cole]

I do it on msn. I've never recieved any call for the dumping, they do it via msn, so I guess I learn from the best

[Thommo_Raver]

my mate got dumped over email
the funny thing was his girlfriend was his neighbour :-s

[Thommo_Raver]

my mate got dumped over email
the funny thing was his girlfriend was his neighbour :-s

[.:MARK:.]

^lmfaooooo!!!!! now that is just lame.

[Cole]

i can't say how practical it would be to have a girl friend as your neighbour. It'd be sweet as!

[[ U N ] _ m c n z ]]

my mate got dumped over email
the funny thing was his girlfriend was his neighbour :-s
Oh thanks for telling everyone ba-ru-wa..

[denis]

owned.

[Thommo_Raver]

LOL no ewen i wasnt referring to you i ws refferring to a mate of mine at school
i didnt even reveal any names :-s

[juicy-couture-xo]

i broke up with my b.f ..
the next w/e he hooked up wit my bestfriend
then the week after he asked my other friend out
and they have been going out ever since...
though i still LoVeeee himm;;aka ____ash<33

[.:MARK:.]

^thats a lovely story, did any of it have to do with text/msn which would relate to the thread properly :p

[denis]

i broke up with my b.f ..
the next w/e he hooked up wit my bestfriend
then the week after he asked my other friend out
and they have been going out ever since...
though i still LoVeeee himm;;aka ____ash<33
you are one fucking moron if you still like him, and you are also a moron if you like your friends, theyre getting ur sloppy seconds.

[juicy-couture-xo]

no i hate thouse girlss now and he broke up with me over msn...
sorri for not writing that

[denis]

well your still a moron for still liking ur x bf.

[.:MARK:.]

Yeah so you still 'love' the guy even though he ruined 2 of your friends realtionships. ok

[Mickey]

how could you not love me?

[vivian]

i break up with just about everyone on the phone its horrible face to face it literally breaks me pinpointing the second its processed and their tiny black heart has been broken.also its horrible meeting up with them when they think everything is normal.
break ups are so ugly and uneccessary..just avoid relationships until your old enough to drive-that way when it does happen you can easily drive off a bridge without gettin arrested on drive out.just makes the process alot faster/easier.

[muzza*nesa]

i have been dumped through text message, and broken up wif guys through text message...never on msn thats a bit tite and some guys i been with think there to "cool 4 msn " lol so they dont have msn ...

[Mickey]

msn is "tite" and sms isnt?

[**BeKi**]

id choose msn over sms. at least over msn it can be explained properly and its more like a conversation compared to sms

[vivian]

*whispers* its because it costs 25cents [on average] *whispers*

[mЯ Fcùķŋ ЯavėR]

well both work for me,

Both free :p

But nahh thats tight, in person is not as easy, but shows you still respect them

[Cole]

whatever does the job. I reckon it would be more hurtful if you choose to do it in real life because it's more of a shock, and i like to avoid tears and begs from them to get back together, so i do it over msn.

[cHeSsCa]

My ex broke up with me over msn, But its all good, were friends..
i agree it is very low to break up over the net..i think it is low as..

[Nalah]

i broke up with my b.f ..
the next w/e he hooked up wit my bestfriend
then the week after he asked my other friend out
and they have been going out ever since...
though i still LoVeeee himm;;aka ____ash<33

Can i just ask, whats with the "LoVeee ;;___ xox" stuff, it is in like ..a lot of your posts... =/

Anywho, yeah i think sms or email is probably the worst, because like beki said with msn it is an instant conversation and it is just easier to talk to than a sms or email.. I just rememberd i broke up with an ex over the phone, but that was because he lived in Bacchus Marsh and thats like a 1hr and 20-40min drive from me.. And we saw eachother about every 3-4th week, I still felt bad though, but he didn't get angry over it or anything, he understood. =]

[Cole]

i broke up with my b.f ..
the next w/e he hooked up wit my bestfriend
then the week after he asked my other friend out
and they have been going out ever since...
though i still LoVeeee himm;;aka ____ash<33


that's not somethig you should boast about.
Everything about you that you've mentioned on this website is pretty fucked up. You've included your friendships and your relationships in that post and they are fucked up. Your attitude on this forum is also pretty fucked up. So overall by everything i've read about you, you are pretty fucked up .
I must agree with denis on this one, you are a moron.

I recommend you do one of the options below

1) get new friends
2) get over your boy friend
3) Move countries/cities
4) Kill yourself

Options 1 and 2 will never happen because you are too stupid and stubborn to attempt. Option 3, I assume isn't very practical, you can't just move countries.. so that concludes with the most practical and decent option for you. Kill yourself:) xoxox

[Nalah]

^ lmaoo "xoxox" bahahha

[brown sugar miki]

that's not somethig you should boast about.
Everything about you that you've mentioned on this website is pretty fucked up. You've included your friendships and your relationships in that post and they are fucked up. Your attitude on this forum is also pretty fucked up. So overall by everything i've read about you, you are pretty fucked up .
I must agree with denis on this one, you are a moron.

I recommend you do one of the options below

1) get new friends
2) get over your boy friend
3) Move countries/cities
4) Kill yourself

Options 1 and 2 will never happen because you are too stupid and stubborn to attempt. Option 3, I assume isn't very practical, you can't just move countries.. so that concludes with the most practical and decent option for you. Kill yourself:) xoxox
Wow, that was a bit harsh don't you think? Maybe she comes on here and goes all D&M on us because she doesnt have any good friends, like you pointed out. So instead of being mean, we should be like doctor phil and give some good ol advice that we dont need because its all ****.

[Cole]

I know it was harsh, but it was mad fun writing it up.
what is D and M on us?
I'm not much of a dr.phil, but you can add her on msn and try. Have fun

[Nalah]

D&M means deep and meaningful. / pouring out your heart!

[Jules]

whatever does the job. I reckon it would be more hurtful if you choose to do it in real life because it's more of a shock, and i like to avoid tears and begs from them to get back together, so i do it over msn.
You do it over MSN to avoid the tears and begging? Kind of shows that you have no balls nor respect for the person because you can't say it to their face.
Also, it's going to hurt and shock the person getting dumped just as much in any format. At least in real life and phone conversations (and to a much lesser extent, MSN) you can talk properly with the other person so you don't completely f*ck up your relationship.

[Steph]

You do it over MSN to avoid the tears and begging? Kind of shows that you have no balls nor respect for the person because you can't say it to their face.
Also, it's going to hurt and shock the person getting dumped just as much in any format. At least in real life and phone conversations (and to a much lesser extent, MSN) you can talk properly with the other person so you don't completely f*ck up your relationship.

yeah i dunno. sometimes on the phone i just want to swear the other person out and yell
and then on msn i kind of collect my thoughts and calm down and actually talk to the person
kinda weird but i'm better through writing things rather than speaking
i get emotional :|

[_Jay Dee]

Anyone who doesnt do it in person or at least over the phone is a dickhead. If your going out with someone for the right reasons then you should grow some balls and talk to them.

[**BeKi**]

I recommend you do one of the options below

1) get new friends
2) get over your boy friend
3) Move countries/cities
4) Kill yourself

Options 1 and 2 will never happen because you are too stupid and stubborn to attempt. Option 3, I assume isn't very practical, you can't just move countries.. so that concludes with the most practical and decent option for you. Kill yourself:) xoxox

heeyyyyyy, why not take your own advice?! :) swell! (*whispers* mainly number 4)

[shaheen]

Anyone who doesnt do it in person or at least over the phone is a dickhead. If your going out with someone for the right reasons then you should grow some balls and talk to them.

Agreed, if you can't say it to their face its obvious your mind isn't properly made up and you're doing it on the spur of the moment, if you say it to their face you know you mean it plus you show the other person you mean it as well.

[Steph]

Agreed, if you can't say it to their face its obvious your mind isn't properly made up and you're doing it on the spur of the moment, if you say it to their face you know you mean it plus you show the other person you mean it as well.


what brilliant advice

[dj_stick]

one time when i broke up with a girl, i went to her house, we had the big "talk" but never came to a conclusion then

the next time i spoke to her was on msn, and i wanted some closure, to know what's going to happen, and so that's when she broke up with me.

and I'm still good friends with her now

[shaheen]

I can't tell if you're being sarcastic.

Edit: to Steph.

[Steph]

I can't tell if you're being sarcastic.

Edit: to Steph.

nup
totally serious

[denis]

i dumped my girlfriend at school today, it was so fucking hard but i did it, now shes so fucking hurt, so i have come to the conclusion, if its done on msn or txt it doesnt meen as much and is not hard on the person as much as it is in person.

[brown sugar miki]

^^it's just as bad over msn, but you cant see their reaction so you wouldnt know how hurt they were.

[[ U N ] _ m c n z ]]

Yeah so true Miki. Just makes it easier on the person breaking it off.
I've never broken up with someone over msn/text/email and never will. It's just so low. And I know it still hurts juts as much, no matter how it's down, as I stated earlier.

[Mickey]

thats why you dont get attached in the first place, makes the whole process easier

[brown sugar miki]

Sometimes you cant help getting attached to someone. Its not something you plan out. But i guess you could break it off before you see yourself getting attached. But if you were happy, why would you do that?

[Mickey]

relationships dont make me happy. they make me think of how much better i could have it if i werent in one, or with that other girl etc.

[denis]

i use relationships to get 'far' with girls.

[brown sugar miki]

^^are you serious?

[[ U N ] _ m c n z ]]

i use relationships to get 'far' with girls.
lmao i used to do that a bit too... trust me, it saves a lot of time and effort to go for the one night stands :)

[brown sugar miki]

Oh ok..see, this is why i dont trust guys.

[Nalah]

Yeah then they say how complicated chicks are and whatever when they actually want a relationship! WELL DERRRRR FREDDD.

[[ U N ] _ m c n z ]]

Yeah then they say how complicated chicks are and whatever when they actually want a relationship! WELL DERRRRR FREDDD.
Pffft girls aren't complicated.... All you have to do is keep talking about them and they're happy. :p

[brown sugar miki]

Ewen has d chix figured out uleh.

[Mickey]

i use relationships to get 'far' with girls.

Oh, now I know why you went out with Liza. :sarc: