Rejecting/asking someone to dance

[.: s 3 [L] m A :.]

Hey guys/girls jst curious about wat some of the 'dance rejection lines' are. hehe, if your talking from experience or just stating your opinon, go for it ;)

[dj_stick]

"i can't dance"
"i'm waiting for some one"

or one that always works

"f*ck off"

you could also try saying "what?" in another language, as if you don't know english

[provenzano]

well if you wana reject somone in that case say you dont excalty know how to dance, you just look at people and make your own stuff. thats what u say

[.: s 3 [L] m A :.]

hahaha, f*ck off is a bit harsh. although the "what?" in another language would b interesting... hopefully they wont speak the same language , lol then ull b forced to say f*ck off

[bootifull wif 2 Ls]

how about just sayin "no" or "not interseted" or "sorry"
isnt the truth better then a lie??

[bittersweet_girl]

say you have a boyfriend? that's what i got told to do if I dont want to dance with someone.. regardless of wether or not i actually have one

[Steph]

how about "no."
works for me

or.... "im a lesbian" although that doesn't always get the negative response that you were seeking

or yeah, what chris said.. "f**k off :)"

the boyfriend thing also works quite well

[`h0tnw3t_faiiriee]

" i have a boyfriend" or "later" :)

[.:MARK:.]

i usually say cbf, then dance my ass off away from her :)

[··¤(`×[¤$#[A]nÁ¤]×´)¤··]

i usually say 'no thanks' or use the 'sorry i have a boyfriend' line, and if that doesnt work i just walk off :)

[Outrageous_Hunni]

I just walk away from them and if they continue stalking me, I tell em to nicely f**k off :)

[..samMyy..]

i either walk away..or just tell them that i'm waiting for my friend or boyfriend they usually work..but if they don't go away then i just tell them to f**k off

[1337]

I'd tell them that I have herpes, or AIDS. Or some STD. Or I tell them I'm a double amputee... It works surprisingly well.

[muzza*nesa]

well you can just be like "ohh sorrry i have a boyfriend, or my boyfriend is coming back in a minute"

or give them a greasy and say eww that always works, who cares if your a bitch, atleast they will know better next time!!!

[Steph]

"hi want to dance?"
"sorry man i have aids"


thats fantastic

[turkey_poppin89]

"I'd love to, but I just killed someone in the toilet, and I have to go destroy the evidence."

[*Princess_Amira*]

I always just say "oh maybe later" most of the time they dont come back and ask again. I try to do it in a nice way

[provenzano]

this is what you say to them. look i aint intrested ok. if ur not that sort of person, just go to them look theres my bf or gf getting drinking down there point at any random and then walk towards them. that awlays works done that few times.

[Cole]

Chick: Hey, do u wanna dance with me
Me: ahhhhhhhhhhh, yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeea NO
Chick: what? i didn't understand (only happends occasionally)
me: na mate na, im a little too old for you (13 YEAR OLD CHICKS ALWAYS ASK ME!!)
if chicks hot: i say: hell yes

[provenzano]

yea but no-one would turn down a hot chick thats just stupid unless u got a gf lol. and if the chick was really unbeliveable and ur gf wasnt there i recon u would think about. eg if jessica simpson ask u i know i would be like hell yea. lol but i wana know wtf r 13 yr olds even doing at them they should be at home.

[muzza*nesa]

your lucky if you get asked...atleast u have the option...

how bad is it when your out there dancing the night away with all your friends, and you suddenly feel these sweaty hands all over your body, and a pounding penetration in your back. then they suddenly pull there body closer and closer to you, at this point many things run through your mind lol, this part is crutial to what happens next!!!
well if you turn around they will instantly hook up with you as they think "there in", but if you dont turn around just run off you would be missing a great opportunity meaning a chance to get with a really hot boy
but in my opionon it is a far better chance that it is an ugly guy who pulls this stunt...lmao

its really quite a problem!!!

[da Bo$S]

ignore is da word lol

[bboy_carnage]

"nooooo speak english!!"
"you want to dance with mwaah? *picks nose and wipe on top*"

[s3xxii_sh0rtass]

at clubs

guy: cmon you wanna dance? *pulls me*
me: mm no.. fuk off.. i have a bf

:)

[Cole]

Muzza ness - That didn't really make much sence, if you turn around they will obviously think you want to hook up with them?
Ok so your dancing with someone, and then you turn around and look backwards and they think that you want to hook up?
how the **** does that work ?

[~:[A]N[D]R[E]A:~]

boyfriend is the best lines ever invented. As soon as u say that they back away, but if they dont u say "his dancing in the *insert club room name* room". Then if they continue u can supposedly scare them and say you'll call him over.

Lol i understand where ness is coming from, but guys, seriously, the penetrate from behind and swirl is really a hard sitaution to get out of if ur not intrested in the guy........ if ur fugly, dont do this 2 gals plz.... no one wants to attract a fugle

[Miss Belle]

How about you stop being so fucking shallow? It's amazing how you girls won't give a guy a minute of your time if you consider them "fugly". Gah

[^Sweet_Kisses^]

How about you stop being so fucking shallow? It's amazing how you girls won't give a guy a minute of your time if you consider them "fugly". Gah

i seriously was just about to post the same thing.

Telling some theyre "fugly" isn't really your best option.
As if you say that to someone, i could not bring myself to do it. no way.

Isnt the title of this thread " If someone asks you to dance, how do you say no without sounding like a biatch?" Maybe some of you didnt read the thread properly...because most of these answers seem to me, to be pretty bitchy.

"f*ck off"
"eww"


:|

[`h0tnw3t_faiiriee]

hm that is way latr is the bets option.. it doesnt tel them they're are ugly and is giving them a slight hope for later in the night. + i think they are starting to get suspicious if every one is telling him/her they have a boyfriend/girlfriend. Plus you never know by the end of the night, you could think the person is very attractive:p

[[ BiAnX ]]

well whenever i go to a club and a guy asks me 2 dance i don't really like being rude to them because it gets u no where so i just simply say "thanks for askin me but i have a boyfriend" and then i say "i got to go now cya nice meeting u" :):) it works most of the time and sometimes we even become friends:):) haha

[Club_bella]

lmao dance like a spastic they dont go near you :P

[Jules]

Girl: Hi, do you want to dance?
Boy: Sorry, I would, but I'm going to the hospital (pulls out a nail-gun and shoots himself).......so-rry.

Works like a charm :D.

Or the other one that usually works better with girls doing it, but I'll do the male example.

Girl: Hi, do you want to dance?
Boy: Sure, but before we do, I better make sure I look my best to you. (Pulls out some pepper spray and sprays it in the girls face.)
Boy: Oh, I'm sorry. Don't worry, I'm right in front of you. Let's start dancing.
The girl should have left by now, however if they don't....
(Boy moves to side as girl walks towards him. She walks to other man and starts dancing with stranger. Boy walks away).

And nobody's feelings get hurt by me :D.

[Rebz]

I can't say I've ever had a girl actually ask me to dance, but I've never copped a reject line when I've been the asker either, so Blah.

[rnB_boOtY]

Just pull yourself away... if they have to confidence to approach you have to confidence to back away! :D
-cHarZ xx

[mz_habibii]

I usually slit my wrists and then beg them to end my misery while I stick their finger in my arse. But hey, different folks, different strokes.

lmaoooooooooo.. mayb i shood try that *cough*

all u have to do.. is tell the guy to fuk off.. who cares how harsh u say it, u dont know the c`nt. So it dosnt mater. if u end up dancing with him, n he wanted sumfin from u, n u dun give out, his gonna fuk u off n go to some other hoe nywayz. so jst tell him to go fuk himself :)

[provenzano]

look i think the best thing to do is say, no and the person who has been told should act like a normal person and just walk away. if the person says no it means no so accept it and move on. i dont think people should take it as an offence because maby you aint what she is looking for. and if she has a bf and u act like and idiot ull end up ina a ifght which is stupid. you never and i reapeat "NEVER" get into a fight ova a chick unless ur her bf.

ive never been rejected when ive asked a chick to dance but when my mates do i tell them to leave the chick alone. and if they dont i drag them into the other room so they can relax and get ova it. thats my advice.

[LeBoDaN]

LOL sorry STUD, never been rejected before.. lol!

[stretch_135]

Girl: Hi, do you want to dance?
Boy: Sorry, I would, but I'm going to the hospital (pulls out a nail-gun and shoots himself).......so-rry.

Two problems:
i) It's kind of permenant. I really don't see you being able to dance again that night after you shoot yourself
ii) How the hell do you get a nail gun into the club in the first place? :S

Nice idea though *nod of approval*

[Jules]

Two problems:
i) It's kind of permenant. I really don't see you being able to dance again that night after you shoot yourself
ii) How the hell do you get a nail gun into the club in the first place? :S

Nice idea though *nod of approval*
How about a taser? Or knife?

[stretch_135]

How about a taser? Or knife?

Could work...still don't see how you're going to get them in. Hope you don't nick an artery and bleed to death all over the floor though :p Taser's a good idea though, as long as you don't go over board on the voltage.

[mz_habibii]

LOL sorry STUD, never been rejected before.. lol!

lol i think if u have neva gone barred, is kuz u go for all da lil hoes :P

[muzza*nesa]

Muzza ness - That didn't really make much sence, if you turn around they will obviously think you want to hook up with them?
Ok so your dancing with someone, and then you turn around and look backwards and they think that you want to hook up?
how the **** does that work ?

ok let me put it simple

this pretty much only applies to girls!!! you will be dancing with ur frends with no intention of picking up and suddenly some random grabs you while your dancing with not even a " would you like 2 dance" line..and you have no clue what he looks like!!! has that eveer happended to you...its hard 2 explain hmmm...

[mz_habibii]

^^i know wat u mean.. ma friends use to do that. i wood go clubin wit em, n sum guy wood dance wit em from behind, n den they wood ask me "is he hot". i dont go clubin wit em nymore..

its stupid. i think its childish.

[STePh***]

this thread is getting pathetic. a call to the mods: please close it

[.:MARK:.]

^ took me a while to read and comprehend with that, speak english.

(talkg about sxc_leb's post)

also, i think that this thread isnt being used as it should be, its asking if someone has asked you to dance, how do you sound no without sounding bitchy.

[STePh***]

^^i know wat u mean.. ma friends use to do that. i wood go clubin wit em, n sum guy wood dance wit em from behind, n den they wood ask me "is he hot". i dont go clubin wit em nymore..

its stupid. i think its childish.
i think you dont have any sense of correct english..read the rules.

[SeXaY_sArA]

Girl: Hi, do you want to dance?
Boy: Sorry, I would, but I'm going to the hospital (pulls out a nail-gun and shoots himself).......so-rry.

Works like a charm :D.


LMAO FAMILY GUY!!! hahaha very nice call!! seriously...
okay im sorry but some of you guys souns so fucking shallow its so pathetic!! who the **** cares if they are ugly? wouldnt you rather be dancing with a really fun guy that you can enjoy the night with or with some good looking boring stuck up person?
im sorry but anyone who goes to some guy '**** off' because you think is ugly has no respect from me.

[.:MARK:.]

^ i agree with you.

and what guy is going to go for such a shallow girl that roles her eyes at everyone.

[SeXaY_sArA]

When i go out at night, whether a party, club or whatever it is, if a guy come sup and wants to dance with me im seriously flattered, no matter what he looks like. i just think some people really need to get over themselves and be a little more humble and just treat everyone with respect. when i read or hear the **** that i have been in this thread i just get so angry and frustrated with people's superficial comments!!!!

[mz_habibii]

i think you dont have any sense of correct english..read the rules.

lol and hoo r u to tell me to read the rules, mayte? no one, so shush.

[.:MARK:.]

lol and hoo r u to tell me to read the rules, mayte? no one, so shush.

well after so many posts made by you.. you should really know the rules anyway.

[mz_habibii]

well after so many posts made by you.. you should really know the rules anyway.

yeah well mayb i know em, and mayb i dont.. why does it mater to u?

[K.BRO]

my best line is "My feet hurt" or "this outfit doesnt allow me to dance" lol
Sometimes i use that "i have a boyfriend" line, it usually does work. I have only ever told someone to "**** off" once, and thats because it was a chick asking! If all else fails, just stare at them with a horrified look on your face as though they have just majorly insulted u in some way, and then tell them u will get ur fully sick hektic uleh's onto them if they dont leave u alone:D

[Cole]

N[D]R[E]A:~']boyfriend is the best lines ever invented. As soon as u say that they back away, but if they dont u say "his dancing in the *insert club room name* room". Then if they continue u can supposedly scare them and say you'll call him over.

Lol i understand where ness is coming from, but guys, seriously, the penetrate from behind and swirl is really a hard sitaution to get out of if ur not intrested in the guy........ if ur fugly, dont do this 2 gals plz.... no one wants to attract a fugle

Thats so fucking harsh. So if the guy isn't attractive yeah, and he takes an interest in a girl, he musn't try because hes fugly? He must automatically know that HE IS fugly, therefor he musn't ever attempt to dance with a girl.

This thread was originally called: "If someone asks you to dance, how do you say no without sounding like a biatch?"
You haven't answered the question, all you have accomplished is making yourself sound like a "biatch."

[RaVeR_J]

lol ive never had someone come and ask me to dance so i porobarly wouldent know but ive had such rejection lines as
.u cant dance so why should i?
.just laugh and look away
.say nope not a chace
.not at the moment im fucked from dancing with that guy over there and point at the biggest **** in the place
and thats it
i feel realy sad now:(:(
anyway there you go try some of them AND IF I HERE IT AGAIN WATCH OUT lol

[SeXaY_sArA]

Thats so fucking harsh. So if the guy isn't attractive yeah, and he takes an interest in a girl, he musn't try because hes fugly? He must automatically know that HE IS fugly, therefor he musn't ever attempt to dance with a girl.

This thread was originally called: "If someone asks you to dance, how do you say no without sounding like a biatch?"
You haven't answered the question, all you have accomplished is making yourself sound like a "biatch."

ahhh yay someone who thinks like me!!!
how stupid was that comment honestly?...people these days are so superficial it shits me up that wall:(...if you want to learn how NOT to sound like a biatch dont listen to any of these comments...

and dont worry josh come to glamour and ask me to dance ill say yes:):)...

[provenzano]

Sexay_Sara will u dance with me aswell lol. :P

[Jules]

Sexay_Sara will u dance with me aswell lol. :P
Nah, she can't. She has a "boyfriend." Sorry. That girl over there (K.BRO) might be single. Try her :D.

[provenzano]

thanks for the tip ii_cool11.

[stephy]

When i go out at night, whether a party, club or whatever it is, if a guy come sup and wants to dance with me im seriously flattered, no matter what he looks like. i just think some people really need to get over themselves and be a little more humble and just treat everyone with respect. when i read or hear the **** that i have been in this thread i just get so angry and frustrated with people's superficial comments!!!!

I cant be bothered going fully into this but i want to say that barring a guy and saying that you dont want to dance is better than saying yes to dance with them n then rejecting them when they try to pick you up because you get there hopes up and they thought that there will be more to it than just a "dance"

Noone asks anyone to dance just for the sake of dancing.
Also, obviously you'd want to be attracted to the person, and if your not then theres no point all your doing is being a tease

[mz_habibii]

AND IF I HERE IT AGAIN WATCH OUT lol

lmao how cute.

Mehh, i jst rather dance wit the ppl im with then strangers. i sometimes dance with strangers, but mostly not.

lol i asked a guy to dance once.. but it was a dare so ye.

[djwhom]

I'd tell them that I have herpes, or AIDS. Or some STD. Or I tell them I'm a double amputee... It works surprisingly well.

lol cause it's true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[.: s 3 [L] m A :.]

hahahahahha i cnt stop laughing after reading all these threads, its fkn funny as, but i must admitt i luv all of them. ;)

[~SionA~]

- just keep walken and greeze them off, they will get the picture and then all you have to do is hope 2 god u dont see them again...just joking
DO
- use...,"im sory i have a boyfriend"
- just say no thanks
- pretend you didnt hear

DONT
- laugh at their faces and run away
- say," you wish" or 'no your ugly"

make sure you dont say i have a boyfriend and then be seen hooking up with numerous randoms *shakes head*

[1337]

lol cause it's true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOLZZZ, OMG LYK ZING!!!11!11one. I MEEN U TOTALLY GOT ME, YOU SED I HAV AIDS LOL! [/sarc]

No seriously, shut up. You don't know what STD's I do or do not have. Go suck a dictionary.

[hana]

^ Having aids is like, the funniest!



If you are male I suggest you wear Lynx deodorant. Be sure to carry a can with you at all times. Then incase of unwanted female attention, you can simply spray a circle around your body for 100% immunity from the opposite sex. Use this technique and I guarantee you shall go home lonely.

[Jules]

If you want the opposite effect, however, use Aqua Di Gio.
The one for men, guys, I can't stress this enough!!!!!!!!

[STePh***]

^ Having aids is like, the funniest!



If you are male I suggest you wear Lynx deodorant. Be sure to carry a can with you at all times. Then incase of unwanted female attention, you can simply spray a circle around your body for 100% immunity from the opposite sex. Use this technique and I guarantee you shall go home lonely.
no thats wrong. and B: you cant gaurantee anything.

[^Sweet_Kisses^]

If you want the opposite effect, however, use Aqua Di Gio.
The one for men, guys, I can't stress this enough!!!!!!!!


That is one sexual perfume.

Loves it.

[HoLLY]

Without sounding like a b!tch I just tell them:

"I can't move in these shoes anymore/my feet are killing me/I need to sit down for a bit" (which is usually true)

or

"I doubt my boyfriend would appreciate it, no offence..."

If they persist, well then I have no problem being more blunt about how I feel hehe :)

[~SionA~]

mmmm i know this is a thread on NOT trying 2 sound like a bitch but usually i am...and not 2 pull the same thing again but i dont care either

[SeXaY_sArA]

I cant be bothered going fully into this but i want to say that barring a guy and saying that you dont want to dance is better than saying yes to dance with them n then rejecting them when they try to pick you up because you get there hopes up and they thought that there will be more to it than just a "dance"

Noone asks anyone to dance just for the sake of dancing.
Also, obviously you'd want to be attracted to the person, and if your not then theres no point all your doing is being a tease

lol okay first of all...i aint a tease, i mean how do you know i reject the guy after dancing with him?

and second of all, you would seriously rather it if you went up to a boy and asked him to dance and he said '**** off' to him saying yes, having a good night and enjoying yourself with him, and then being friends afterwards?

[RaVeR_J]

umm people i ask people to dance just because i get bored and i dunt expewct a cheep pik up at the end of it.. not all guys are like that im sick of it all girls thinking every guy is the same"all they want is there dik wet" its not true has any1 accualy thought that a guy mite want a real relationship vased on trust and yeah the other ****??? mayb you girls are the ones that just want to play around and need someone to blame? not naming anynames and not speaking to anyone particular...

[Teknoboy]

I havn't taken my pill and dun have any energy to dance :)

[Teknoboy]

Or u could say, i was just dancing and i broke ma ankle, i'm gone for da night

[- NaTeR]

or can just say cbf sorry

[FrEsH_PrEnDY^ViP^CrEw]

i hate it wen a girl says i hav a bf and then u see her hook up with like 3 guys makes ya feel like complete ****.. i usually dance with mymates anyway im abit ova dirty dancing it shits me

[RaVeR_J]

yeah same lol what has girls become?

[~SionA~]

umm people i ask people to dance just because i get bored and i dunt expewct a cheep pik up at the end of it.. not all guys are like that im sick of it all girls thinking every guy is the same"all they want is there dik wet" its not true has any1 accualy thought that a guy mite want a real relationship vased on trust and yeah the other ****??? mayb you girls are the ones that just want to play around and need someone to blame? not naming anynames and not speaking to anyone particular...

if u acctally truely belive that we shuld meet up sumtime cos i am soooo sick of guys maybe i meet all the wrong 1s but they are all ALL the same!!!:(

[petermicha]

Just say, No sorry with a smile, and walk/dance away..

[50cent/will]

say. sorry im too cool 4 u get lost n3rd

[hbk69]

chick:wanna dance?
me:no
chick: y not
me: cos it looks like a racoon has chewed ur face off

[hbk69]

or you could say i really really hate dancing.... works even better if ur already dancing.

[**BeKi**]

o0oh that racoon one was harsh!

what you should do is just shake your head :)

[dettie_girl69]

haha awww berlins_beast (James) on this site started talking to me when I was clubbing one time and I really wasn't in the mood and I didn't know who he was so my guy mate came up n pretended to be my boyfriend :) (thats the best way, have a guy or gal mate and just give them that SAVE ME look) but then afterwards I realised who James was and felt bad.

[RaVe-LiKe-sPaSTiC]

id come up with somehting completely stupid.. like id be like nah sorry i dont smoke or im saving this spot for someone or my bf is a biker!!
im such a nut lol :P

[RaVe-LiKe-sPaSTiC]

hbk69 - i like your thoughts :D

[out.of__control]

At ibiza on friday, my boyfriend was there and there were these 2 annoying little
sh´tz, probably 13 - 14 following me the whole night trying to score. I ended up going off with my friend grabbing him because my boyfriend hooked up with my sister with the 2 boys walking passed sayiing "pfft , boyfriend my ass". Mmm, i did use the "oh i have a phonecall a couple of times" , or "hey look,flying pig" and walk away. [if they look it ALWAYS WORKS] .

[RaVe-LiKe-sPaSTiC]

^^ thats the best , hey is that shannon noll? n then you run for your life haha

[RaVe-LiKe-sPaSTiC]

noones ever asked me to dance its usually they get really close n start dancing in your cumfort zone and you just give a sharp turn and dance somewhere else, but then you get those really persistant guys who wont fcuk off n then you have ot say something

[RaVeR_J]

lol ibiza i was head promo went in for like 10 minutes saw that there was NO! dancing every1 wanted to fight( which did happen ) thank you to little girlys lol and walked out and span at a more resectably party... neone want a live mix just pm me( p.s not for the faint heart'd hard trance and hard house)...

[mela1636]

just pretend that you cant hear them over the music and look like your attention is focussed fully on something else, unless youve already looked at them thats mean if youve already looked at them say sorry and that you have to wait until your friend comes back from the bathroom/toilets so that way you can't leave? if they come back later say youve got a boyfriend and theyll get the point. if symptoms persist say no lol. now thats a plan.

[RaVeR_J]

PUT IT THIS WAY...if you dont want anyone to dance with you at underages DONT GO its easy.... dont you know (youngins) underages are mostly about a safe place where you can go with your mates/friends and pik up..play games on whu can get with more chicks/guys and get a cheap thrill and accosianly u get the ravers like me that go to dance ;) neways so its easy if you dont want to dance with someone dont go....