Relationship woes and tales

[lil'emmie]

okay, I started this discussion a week ago. But then my computer got a virus and died. (d-d-chhh).

What's happened in your relationship thats' been particuly good/bad? got any great presents? funny moments? Really bad txt breakups?!

I think this discussion should be interesting. Who doesnt want to B*tch about 'billy the love rat who dumped them in a txt two days before the formal?'

okay, I'll Start. I was dating a guy named (uh,Grover for protective reasons). And Grover was very neglective. Grover;
a)never gave me his home number
b) never took me to his house
c) never introduced me to his family
and D) never really took me out on a 'date'

Needless to say he dumped me. Oh but with style! he just wouldnt take my phone calls and wouldnt reply to my txt's. After two weeks i asumed we were over...

...nice

edit- We've merged all these types of threads here because we a sick of them shitting up the forum. The posts are all jumbled up, we arn't fixing them either. Carry on

[^Sweet_Kisses^]

damn that grover!! neglective grovers are never good

how about when the Grover (lol :P) you really like and have been seeing for a while, suddenly stops calling you / msging you,(after him having txtd you every single day) and after 2 weeks when you decide to msg the Grover, replies with... "Optus wishes to advise you that this number has been disconnected"

Harsh..
but hey! i lived to tell the tale so it's all good :)

[lil'emmie]

Hrmmm, It sounds to me like we've been dating the same Grover!.... I say we let Oscar the Grouch loose on him!

[DJ Beau J]

Biggest problem ive had - partner not being appreciative enough

[^Sweet_Kisses^]

i think you are quite right....

oscar never comes out of his rubbish bin though does he? cookie monsters pretty scary...or even worse....elmo

[Melb_Raverkid]

how about you're dating a Grovette, then when Grovette's friends encourage you to ask Grovette out to your formal, you invite her and everything's fine.

you spend heaps of money on the bitch (naturally, because you like her), then at the afterparty she gets trashed off her pickle, tries to kiss other guys, ends up getting so hammered that she has to be dragged out the front, thrown in a taxi, taken home, dragged upstairs, put into bed with a vommit bucket next to her.

THEN she gets into bed with you at 4am and says "i'm cold".

[SeXuAl_KoUkLa]

Umm..had some pretty nasty Grovers in my time, but can't add my lil bit unless i tell you about my sweetheart elmo..then id just be sad!!..lol..
I was with this elmo whos was the best boyfriend ever for 7 months..yeah, i know..2 lifetimes worth..but i enjoyed every minute of time i spent with him. Im one of those 'commitment phobia people' ..and all my last relationships before him were a max of about 3 weeks limit. Anyway, this elmo always suprised me with visits to pick me up from school every week, the smallest presents that still mean the world to me, and was always taking me out and having fun. I ended up breaking up with him because it got to the point of me wanting more than what i had, which i sometimes see as the most selfish thing i've ever done. The cutest thing that i have from him, and a GOOD HINT TO BOYS LOOKING TO BUY THEIR GIRLFRIENDS A PRESENT..is a silver love heart key chain thing. He got it done at one of those stall things that put a photo into the silver itself, and it comes through when you look at it from a certain angle. On one side there was a photo we had of us, and on the other side it says ELMO and STEPH..i hope you know what im talking about, cause it's seriously so cute and the best idea..well, we always have those special ones in your life, and i dont think i'll ever forget him for all the amazing stuff he did for me and the times we shared.

[**BeKi**]

my ex was a real poo head. i only ever talked to him on msn because
1. some weird thing with his aunty and uncle and they couldnt know that he was going out with someone let alone a *gasp* MACO! :O so we never spoke on the home phone
2. too expensive to talk on the mobile
we were 'seeing' each other for about 2 months then we started going out for another 2 months, and in the time i knew him i saw him a total of about 6 times lol, all in the company of my friends too (not a bad thing but you have to have some private time which he surprisingly never had time for). when we went out for the 2 months i didnt see him for about a month and a week ^o) then he told me i never made an effort to see him. but everytime we went out it was because i organised it! anyways i told him tht he either came out somehow and saw me after my formal or i couldnt see him anymore. i called him when i got to the city and he was sleeping!! so then i told him i couldnt see him anymore and he told me he couldnt talk about it then. ALL HE WAS DOING WAS SLEEPING! if i meant anything to him he could have at least tried to talk to me :(

i hope that was a good read for you emmalee, there are more fcuked up details but i cant remember atm :( lol

[shaheen]

Personally I don't have much to say cause I'm in my first relationship and things are getting really good and yeah, this thread seems to be about things in the past tense and this relationship isn't over thus I won't say anything, but my girl has gone through alot of ****, her exs literally treated females like sex objects and human punching bags and almost killed their gfs on numerous occasions, they are scum, some have fled the country cause of rape charges, so from that you can gather what they were like, i detest them, I don't know where they live cause she doesn't know either but if I find them I swear I'll rip them apart. Shes told me alot of these stories and shes been through hell literally, and I'm very lucky to have her cause for her to get over such things isn't easy and for her to trust me is the greatest thing personally to me and I love her to death and it'll never change.

[**BeKi**]

^^ *tear* ALL GUYS ON THIS FORUM TAKE NOTE! (dont take note on the abuse and rape ****, about the way shaheen is and feels about his girl!) shaheen, why arent there more of you? :(

[shaheen]

I don't know, all my life girls never saw me as potential bf material so I used to hate myself and wonder whats wrong with me, but girls would come up to me to like tell all their problems and stuff like that, but just won't go out with me, I'm just who I am and I don't go for looks or whatever, its about the person as a whole. I'm just who I am and I personally am not happy with who I am but I know I'll always put her before anything even my life and yeah, these days alot of guys just want to play around and it sickens me, alot of my mates are like that. Theres no loyalty and integrity anymore, its just a big game and all its about is getting laid, **** I don't even give a **** if I never get laid, I've neve been happier and never loved life more.

I got more **** here if anyones bored www.shaqjam.blogspot.com its like myspace but yeah, blogspot style.

I'm going to get so bagged for what I just said but I can't be fucked.

[**BeKi**]

if anyone bags you i will personally elbow drop them :) i have respect for you *does the respect sign*

[shaheen]

Hahaha, thanks.

Mucho gracios, mucho gracios.

[SeXaY_sArA]

Shaheen all i can say is your girl is so damn lucky!! ive never been able to find a guy who thinks the way you do!! their all jerks, seriously its like they'd die if they treated a girl right!!

[shaheen]

Well I can't say you're lying cause I don't know of any guys personally who are like me, some of them find it really weird I'm like that :S. I was telling all the things I had planned for our 1 month to my mate of mine and he was like "you really like this girl" and I'm like "like her? I love her to bits man" and he found it weird, but I don't blame him, hes the type that only wants a girl for sex, doesn't want a relationship, most of my mates are like that. These are just guys I know personally, the only decent ones are the asian guys I know at uni, they're good people. All I can say is if you have a shy guy friend who you always talk to but never considered more than a friend give him a shot, cause seriously, most of the time they're the ones that would do anything to have you.

[lil'emmie]

Points from me!
**MaCo_ChiCk** you rule thanks for writing so much...YOUR GROVER IS MY GROVER....
Grover was all. "shucks emmalee, im busy today." Im like "what are you doing hes like "im having a poker night with friends"
This was on every fu*ing night!!!
Ugh and to the male sweetheart... i hate you.

either that or i want you im undecided lol (jk!)

Its true that men suck and that the only way 2 land a man is to go for your not-so-attractive-yet-funny-and-dorky-friend-who-wouldnt-hurt-a-fly type.

But as if!

[shaheen]

Thats the whole problem with people finding a significant other, theres so much classification, if they're shy they're immediately dorky or nerdy, if they have a mohawk their into punk rock and all they want to do is party. Seriously, just stop following the whole stereotypical bullshit and step out of your comfort zone a little.

[SeXaY_sArA]

I went for my shy friend once, and he ended up being the biggest user ever, whixh totally sucked because he was such a good friend and i really cared about him as well! I've had the worst expierances guys, and i dont think i could really ever trust any of them at all anymore. They always see you as their property and think they can treat you how ever they want.

[`h0tnw3t_faiiriee]

hmm ihave had bad relationship break ups and **** but i jus block them out of my memory:D lol

[**BeKi**]

it depends if you know them at school or not also shaheen, you know the whole 'popularity' bullshit *rolls eyes*

and to lil'emmie he never said the whole doing stuff with friends, it was he was too busy with uni *rolls eyes yet again* what a shifty **** lol

[SeXaY_sArA]

i wish i could just easily block them out of my memory but theres always something that would remind me of them, like a song or movie that we both likes, stuff like that...its seriously pathetic...

[SwEeTasSuGaR]

i dunno..i can relate 2 a lot of the chix here cause i've been burned - all too many times, and the first guy i ever kissed (oh how romantic:P) played me, and never called me and kinda passed me onto a friend of his. u can imagine how i felt i was so devasted. but i finally got over him, and it was great!! i just think that thinking u can get something from meeting people @ clubs is not the right idea bcoz it wont work..i am yet to be proven wrong, unless u are good friends with them THEN go out. everytime ur ruined and u need to move on, u just have to you know, just keep a little bit of that person tucked away in your heart and i'm not saying stay best friends with ur ex but try if u can becoz remember that person (regardless if u or they played u) once had **some** feelings for you and u shouldnt let people that special, leave ur life forever. man sometimes my ex's annoy me so bad but i think of why i went out with them, and they are people afterall, nobody deserves to be shunned or told to f*** off when u arent interested anymore!! *is all girly & wants the world to be happy* lol ah well we can only imagine =P

[JUZT!N]

yeah im with shaheen all the way, i hate cheaters esp. i dont reckon theres a point of hurting the other person i always tell my friends if they want a relationship they have to stop stuff and i hate how they cant even do that.thats wat you got to do with relationships you have to stay true.

[SeXaY_sArA]

YAY!! two guys that are decent!! lol yeah i think if a guy wants to cheat he should just end the relationship instead of causing more hurt. But I've realised that girls cheat a lot more than guys, most of my friends have cheated on their bf's and im just thinking why would you do that when you have some one who adores you? it confuses the **** of me!!!

[**BeKi**]

DAMN YOU JUSTIN! >.< why are you one month younger, WHY?!

[JUZT!N]

lol yeah i love my girl SHANNA ive only been her for 2 weeks but we have just connected so easily it was like love at first sight nah it was really. and since i havent been in a proper relationship before im guessing im doing alright hehehe

[JUZT!N]

ohh yeah im really 15 lol i accidently did 1989 soz people for the wrong info lol
and to answer WHY?!? its becuase my mumma n papa did sumthing on 1989 lol then i was born 1990 MAY 22nd :D

[RobertD]

Its pointless to cheat on the one your with. All these people who think its cool being a playa are just ignorant fools who lack the intelligence of having feelings. Its simple knowledge, if you care for someone you wont hurt them. If you love someone you'll stand by them till the end,.

Also,
I hate the term "break" Your either with someone or your not. It's simple.

Me and my girl met at the age of 12, and are still going strong. Were both turning 18 soon.

[**BeKi**]

:| OMFG thats like 6 years...i think im going to cry :(

[SeXuAl_KoUkLa]

I love those stories. My aunty an uncle grew up in the same street, and used to play tennis together in the street and stuff. The other day, they had their 17th wedding anniversary..*tear tear*. They've been together for over 20 years. So from childhood friends, they're life long partners. Ow..i just think its gorgeous..hehe

[dj`an-D]

Respect to the fellas that are keeping it real.

I just go by the rule "Dont do what you want done to you". Me and my girl been going out 7 months now and its been mad, never regretted the choice i made when i wanted to be with her.

Good luck ladies, dont worry, you will find that special guy sometime soon :)

an-D

[`h0tnw3t_faiiriee]

hmm i dont believe in the one and only , well not right now anyways..
i think of it as the right one for that point of your life and when something ends theres a reason behind it and probably some-one else out there for you.
some people are fortunate to find some one and to be with them for a long time.

[Nate]

This thread is like an episode of Bold and the Beautiful....:sick:

Anywho, to add to the sappy dribble, most girls, well pretty much every girl i've been with has just been there for one night or just to pass the time. It fukn sh*ts me, no-one wants a serious relationship anymore, it's all about fukn sex...i think by the time you reach my age you should have grown into your hormones by now and stop acting like a rabbit on heat.

I guess i'm just waiting for the right person... *waits*

[`h0tnw3t_faiiriee]

lol awww ,il wait with you -im waiting for some one who wont make up there mind fi they want a relationship or not.. hmmmm it cant be that hard to make up their mind or not....

every one around me wants to bumm round and jst grab and have fun , **** like that, which is alright but now i just want a relationship..

[Fine Ass Clubba]

This thread is like an episode of Bold and the Beautiful....:sick:

Anywho, to add to the sappy dribble, most girls, well pretty much every girl i've been with has just been there for one night or just to pass the time. It fukn sh*ts me, no-one wants a serious relationship anymore, it's all about fukn sex...i think by the time you reach my age you should have grown into your hormones by now and stop acting like a rabbit on heat.

I guess i'm just waiting for the right person... *waits*


Yeh i agree with you its all about sex these days, but luckily i have a gorgeous new bf who treats me really well.

[shaheen]

There are a fair few girls that only want sex but I don't associate with them much, I personally find its a major turn off to be around people like that, it shits me.

[^Sweet_Kisses^]

every one around me wants to bumm round and jst grab and have fun , **** like that, which is alright but now i just want a relationship..

just so everyone knows, i HATE the word "grab". its f`kn stupid.

back on topic, even when you do get burned from guys slash girls, after you've gotten over your heart breaking..look at it in a positive light. wen i got f`kd over by this one particular guy i was crushed, but in the end i learned soo much from that one guy...im glad it happened now, im not as naive as i used to be. so yeh sumtimes it can be a good thing and ur better off without that person :)

[shaheen]

Yeah, my girl has always said she never regretted going through what she did and what her exs did to her cause it thought her alot about people and made her a stronger person. Its just about you handle situations that makes you who you are.

[^BaYBee^DoLL^]

This thread is like an episode of Bold and the Beautiful....:sick:

Anywho, to add to the sappy dribble, most girls, well pretty much every girl i've been with has just been there for one night or just to pass the time. It fukn sh*ts me, no-one wants a serious relationship anymore, it's all about fukn sex...i think by the time you reach my age you should have grown into your hormones by now and stop acting like a rabbit on heat.

I guess i'm just waiting for the right person... *waits*

well well well
in the following years to come your going to hit your peak!!
so when your about 21, 22 i think you'll be saying something different :p i think your going to be the rabbit on heat!!

[shaheen]

Not true really, the peak is about till 18, it just depends how much you're addicted to sex and want a relationship or just want to ****.

[^BaYBee^DoLL^]

it's commonly late teens to early twentys.... which is where most of us are heading in the following years to come.

[SeXaY_sArA]

What i dont get is why would a guy play a chick because all he wanted was sex, if she was willing to sleep with him if they were together? He'd be getting it anyways, and it would be easier than just finding randoms all the time. well thats what i think anyways....hope that makes sense...

[shaheen]

Well, guys that just want to **** don't want the commitment of a relationship like talking every night, or checking up on the girl, or just going out for lunch, they basically only want to meet up with that girl for sex, and if it doesn't happen then they move on, my mates like that so I know how scummy they are.

[stephy]

relationships are overated..
in my opinion youve got the rest of your life to be with one person,
i used to be one of those people who only wants a relationship, but u get over it..
really you do, in the last month ive seen a couple good mates head fkd, not eating etc due to relationship problems.
Also i dont think many people around this age are muture enough,
hence the amount of 'players" (guys and chix) its all bull$hit.
simple .... go out have fun
and no offense to anyone, but when i hear 14 and 15 year olds talking bout "their ex"..well it makes me sick

[^BaYBee^DoLL^]

maybe they think "i'm a mad **** i can get all these bitches like no tomorrow" and it's so cool to cop pussy. lol and its uncool to be a softcock
puhleezeeeeeee!

[^Sweet_Kisses^]

maybe guys should tell girls straight up that all they want is sex..instead of leading them on and eventually hurting them. if a guy said outright all he wanted to do was have sex then the girl could make the decision whether she wanted to do that or not, without feeling like a dumbass. u know cos wen u get played u feel really *dumb*

this applied to chicks aswell..if all they want is sex then yeh..just say right at the start

[shaheen]

relationships are overated..
in my opinion youve got the rest of your life to be with one person,
i used to be one of those people who only wants a relationship, but u get over it..
really you do, in the last month ive seen a couple good mates head fkd, not eating etc due to relationship problems.
Also i dont think many people around this age are muture enough,
hence the amount of 'players" (guys and chix) its all bull$hit.
simple .... go out have fun
and no offense to anyone, but when i hear 14 and 15 year olds talking bout "their ex"..well it makes me sick

Level of maturity isn't defined by age, its about how you look at life. I know of a few couples who have been together since they were 12 and are now 24 and about to get married, also know of a few who were like in their 20s and went out for a few months and got married and now are happily together. You can't just judge like that and say at a teenage level relationships shouldn't occur

[stephy]

maybe guys should tell girls straight up that all they want is sex..instead of leading them on and eventually hurting them. if a guy said outright all he wanted to do was have sex then the girl could make the decision whether she wanted to do that or not, without feeling like a dumbass. u know cos wen u get played u feel really *dumb*

this applied to chicks aswell..if all they want is sex then yeh..just say right at the start

umm no u dont do that.
i dont know any sane person who would do that

[**BeKi**]

hmm iuno id like a guy to tell me if all he wanted was to much around otherwise it would give me false hopes :( i like relationships coz you always have that person there to be with and comfort you :(

[RobertD]

:| OMFG thats like 6 years...i think im going to cry :(
Yeah, but it was alot of hardwork, when you got jealous people getting involved and family politics it makes it harder to work at, but in the end it makes you stronger

[**BeKi**]

^^ its the fact that you work at it that makes it so good :(

[lil'emmie]

Thats the whole problem with people finding a significant other, theres so much classification, if they're shy they're immediately dorky or nerdy, if they have a mohawk their into punk rock and all they want to do is party. Seriously, just stop following the whole stereotypical bullshit and step out of your comfort zone a little.

jeezus. I was just saying that most people woodnt find it that simple just to snap their fingers and say "well i GUESS i could have hidden feelings for my friend cookie monster"

Seriously that was fu*king harsh. Everyone steriotypes, not on puropse but just cos. i can label people as a sikre or goth or wateva, im not being nasty its what they are!. if someone called me a surfie or a sikre, to be honest i woodnt give a sh*t. Oh, and i wouldnt care if i was to "branch out" of my steriotype. i dont even f*cking have one!:insane:

[jamez]

maybe guys should tell girls straight up that all they want is sex..instead of leading them on and eventually hurting them.

I don't know a chick who wouldn't bolt upon hearing that.

[lil'emmie]

p.s....
im one of the most fair minded people i know but can "shaheen" Please shut up a bit?

If you read back people you will see that all he does is talk up his gf and dis everyone els!

You're dishing advise like theres no tomorrow!

...& yeah thats all... xox lil'emmie

[shaheen]

Talk up my gf? read the fucking first post, whats it about? relationship stories isn't it? get fucked seriously, I am in no fucking mood to deal with twits like you.

[RobertD]

^^ its the fact that you work at it that makes it so good :(
why u sad hun

[**BeKi**]

coz i want a guy thats like that! *runs away crying*

[SeXaY_sArA]

coz i want a guy thats like that! *runs away crying*

Me too!! dont worry i feel your pain!! Its so hard to find a guy like that, they are so rare! and unfortunatly always taken which just totally sucks!

[**BeKi**]

^^ EXACTLY!! TAKEN! i think they should have like massive signs on them saying 'DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT IT'. i swear if i dont get a good one so im batting for the other team!

[shaheen]

If you girls would make it more obvious you're after guys like that and actually gave us a chance maybe you'd get one, its not like guys like robert aren't out there, you just got to give them a chance.

[**BeKi**]

if i made it more obvious id just get more hurt and that sux. id like to keep it to myself and keep dreaming of the perfect guy lol :)

[JUZT!N]

yeah soo true shaheen,also i think girls should make more of an effort "the right one" wont just drop into your lounge room you know thats how i see it girls dont make enough effort

[shaheen]

When I was in high school all the girls there didn't even talk to me let alone consider me bf material, after high school was over I went to a party organised by people from that high school, then I realised alot of girls there actually liked me and stuff, why they didn't say anything? cause they said they'd be ashamed as me as their bf and if their friends saw cause my popularity level as well as appearance was close to nothing.

[SeXaY_sArA]

I hate girls like that...The girls i hang out with at school judged me when i started going out with some of my ex's but i really didnt care, if i care about the guy and he cares about me it doesnt matter if he is the most 'popular' or biggest 'geek'. i dont want what people think to influence my decisions.

[Eskimo]

What the **** is a sick re?

[dj_stick]

someone named "re" that should see a doctor

[Eskimo]

Don't understand why you would name your kid "re", mate.

[`h0tnw3t_faiiriee]

if i made it more obvious id just get more hurt and that sux. id like to keep it to myself and keep dreaming of the perfect guy lol :)

haha sameeeee, and then when i finally tell some one i like themm they yell at mee cos i havent told them sooner and then eventually, it ends with them.. its so sad....*tear*

[RobertD]

Me too!! dont worry i feel your pain!! Its so hard to find a guy like that, they are so rare! and unfortunatly always taken which just totally sucks!
Thanks girls I appreciate the comments, but im sure there are guys out there who want what you want too! Not all guys are like that!

[lil'emmie]

If you girls would make it more obvious you're after guys like that and actually gave us a chance maybe you'd get one, its not like guys like robert aren't out there, you just got to give them a chance.

O.....M.....G! there you go asuming! You think we dont TRY! I asume you mean trying by what? going up to guys, chatting to them, heck even asking them out outright. But you know what lover-boy? That doesnt land you a good boyfriend.

I have a theory that all good-looking attentive males live on a recluse island thats where-abouts is only given out to a select group of women whos breasts taste like chocolate and hair never gets greasy and who have an atm at their total disposal sticking out of their back!

For Eskimo:
P.s. Sikre = sort of gangsta type thug/thugette. i think the name was adapted from russian 're' meaning friend or something? Not sure.

P.P.S...dj_stick how hilarious!

P.P.P.s....shasheen, if you dont have the time stop posting and being discriminative! And yeah i read what you wrote about ur gf im soz, but i started this f*cking thread so in conjunction with the administrators, i say what goes okkkkay?!

[JUZT!N]

P.P.P.s....shaheen, if you dont have the time stop posting and being discriminative! And yeah i read what you wrote about ur gf im soz, but i started this f*cking thread so in conjunction with the administrators, i say what goes okkkkay?!


his talking about relationships didnt u want to hear about peoples relationships well thats wat his doing,give him a fukn break i think he has enuf stuff goin on..and he doesnt need anymore. you wanted to hear this stuff so stop going off about wat his saying. < i think thats about it lol

[shaheen]

O.....M.....G! there you go asuming! You think we dont TRY! I asume you mean trying by what? going up to guys, chatting to them, heck even asking them out outright. But you know what lover-boy? That doesnt land you a good boyfriend.


P.P.P.s....shasheen, if you dont have the time stop posting and being discriminative! And yeah i read what you wrote about ur gf im soz, but i started this f*cking thread so in conjunction with the administrators, i say what goes okkkkay?!

I didn't assume fool, just going from how my life here was.

And what you say doesn't go, full fucking stop. I said I aint got the time to deal with fucknuts like you. I got plenty of time to post though :).

[dj_stick]

Hahaha Alex, neither do I


For Eskimo:
P.s. Sikre = sort of gangsta type thug/thugette. i think the name was adapted from russian 're' meaning friend or something? Not sure.

rofl gangsta? anyway "re" is greek for come here or something similiar

P.P.P.s....shasheen, if you dont have the time stop posting and being discriminative! And yeah i read what you wrote about ur gf im soz, but i started this f*cking thread so in conjunction with the administrators, i say what goes okkkkay?!
Shaheen is right - he's talking about the relationship he has with his gf. And what you say does not go - you have no authority on this site. Last I checked Shaheen is a moderator here

[shaheen]

his talking about relationships didnt u want to hear about peoples relationships well thats wat his doing,give him a fukn break i think he has enuf stuff goin on..and he doesnt need anymore. you wanted to hear this stuff so stop going off about wat his saying. < i think thats about it lol

Thanks man. Thumbs up

[Club_bella]

hmmm think it about time i posted although with the amout of bad bf i have had we could be hear a while i think i have had the most ruffest relationships eva mostly everything under the sun, best friend sleepin with ur bf (and now there still together and see them everywere) then another bf sayiing that he could do better than me just because i wouldent give into him and then there is another ex who i wont mention because i dont want sympathy so i will not mention him.
But the lates ex and what i mean by the lates is like 6 months now. We were together for a good year n a half sorta on and off anyways one night after we were out a week later he was acting weird and really rude to me i asked him what was up and he goes ohh i dunno how to tell u this and me thinking somthing was wrong with the prick like he was sick or sumthing was goin tel me whats wrong maybe i can halp u he then goes to me i dont think we should talk anymore and me in shock go y and he goes because after a year and a half i have decied that i would rather be with my gf that i have been with for the past 5 months and that i need to stop this relation ship because i have been using u for the hole year and half that we have been together :( thing is i thought i loved this guy sooo much and i know most ppl go ur 16 u dont no what love is but neav a felt like this about any one eva befor, but i guess its time to move on but yer thats my bad relationship stories :(

[RobertD]

If you girls would make it more obvious you're after guys like that and actually gave us a chance maybe you'd get one, its not like guys like robert aren't out there, you just got to give them a chance.

Word up! Thats 100% Right!

[lil'emmie]

And what you say doesn't go, full fucking stop. I said I aint got the time to deal with fucknuts like you. I got plenty of time to post though :).

calling me a 'fucknut' well gee. theres a real nice way to stop a feud. i didnt f*cking start you shmuck i was just commenting on the way you dish advise about relationships a lot and if you check back you tend to be saying more bad than good.

F*cking p.s. to the shmuck who tell me that 'i wanted to hear about relationship'.... well nahh! All i did was say 2 shasheen that he was saying sum weird sh*t.

Oh lord help me... i'll have all of you on my back after this one!

Keep writing your stories and stop starting me!

im ending this crap here!!

[shaheen]

We aint starting you, you started us. You can't deal with what I post then I honestly couldn't care less.

[JUZT!N]

to the emma girl ^^just listen to the stories and keep ur mouth shut. Adriana i sure hope u gave him a huge slap after wat he told u...coz im prtty sure i would have if i was u.

[Club_bella]

umm nah coz he didnt have the balls to say it to my face it was ova msn and the thing is i dont hate him at all untill a lil while ago i sorta wanted him back thast how much i loved him

[JUZT!N]

thats pretty strong of u about the whole not hateing him thing,its really hard heartbreaks it really hurts n esp. for the girls that dont deserve that ****. im sure theres sumone right for u out there. * Gonna start a search for u * hehehe

[**BeKi**]

lol today i organised to meet up with my ex for abit after i finished work. i finished work late and he wasnt there so as i was walking home i sent him a msg saying that i was going home. five minutes later i get this msg saying 'ooh fuk man i forgot im sorry' and it went on to say how he couldnt come anyway coz he had to take his cousin to a thingy. im never trying again :(

[JUZT!N]

OMG watta idiot i hate when ppl hold u up or dont even show up *annoys me to the maxx*

[Club_bella]

thats pretty strong of u about the whole not hateing him thing,its really hard heartbreaks it really hurts n esp. for the girls that dont deserve that ****. im sure theres sumone right for u out there. * Gonna start a search for u * hehehe

lol thanx

[**BeKi**]

lol it pisses me off even more because he FORGOT what a maggot :)

[lil'emmie]

lol today i organised to meet up with my ex for abit after i finished work. i finished work late and he wasnt there so as i was walking home i sent him a msg saying that i was going home. five minutes later i get this msg saying 'ooh fuk man i forgot im sorry' and it went on to say how he couldnt come anyway coz he had to take his cousin to a thingy. im never trying again :(

Omg! my bf is all "look babe i havent seen you in ages, ill pick you up from dancing" im like YAY coz i seriously cbf walking...

20mins goes by so i call him and hes all "oh, soz babe cant make it...i never said id drive you what are you talking about?" so im like UGH! 'okay babe love you too!"

...I walked home

p.s. This is the same guy from the begining "grover"....!!!

[**BeKi**]

OMG lets go castrate all ASSHOLES!

[lil'emmie]

Bahahaha nah. i need men around to eventualy fertilise my egg.

[^Sweet_Kisses^]

well u dont have to attack all men....just the assholes. we need an asshole radar..*whirls a metal object above head*

[stretch_135]

Is that metal object meant to detect them or take their heads off? :S

[^Sweet_Kisses^]

um well...if theyre close enough then itll probably take their heads off yeah:) either way is good

[stretch_135]

Remind me to never annoy you >_>

[**BeKi**]

Bahahaha nah. i need men around to eventualy fertilise my egg.

i said castrate all ASSHOLES. are you hoping to mate with an asshole? :| because all nice guys get to keep their jiggly bits :)

[JUZT!N]

can i keep mine :D plz

[lil'emmie]

i said castrate all ASSHOLES. are you hoping to mate with an asshole? :| because all nice guys get to keep their jiggly bits :)
*cough* i was joking *cough*

...Already mated with an asshole!

...Regret? You dont know the meaning of the word!

[Tanele]

no relationship is ever going to be perfect.
Someones going to end up hurt in some way or dissapointed, its just the way life goes

[Club_bella]

^^ true that but u know what after about a good 4 year run of bad relationships and always getting hurt its now times were u dont open ur self up anymore to anyone ..and it hurts a hole heap that u cant trust another guy or u can but it will take a very long time me to now open my self up to them like i did to the other pricks.
It sucks that nice ppl always get burnt out but yer that how life goes

[HoLLY]

I don't wish to share any stories, but I'd just like to point out one thing:

relationships suck:)

You love, you lose and only then do you learn.

End of story.

[heidi]

God teenagers are a bunch of whiney cu.nts.

[RobertD]

God teenagers are a bunch of whiney cu.nts.

lol...stop ya whining
hehe

[SeXaY_sArA]

^^ true that but u know what after about a good 4 year run of bad relationships and always getting hurt its now times were u dont open ur self up anymore to anyone ..and it hurts a hole heap that u cant trust another guy or u can but it will take a very long time me to now open my self up to them like i did to the other pricks.
It sucks that nice ppl always get burnt out but yer that how life goes


I Know exactly how you! And it sucks because i know there are nice guys out there but i just dont want to risk getting hurt again...and also that guy you were with is such an asshole!! no one deserves that at all!!

[**BeKi**]

are there any guys on this forum who are romantic? (L) i need my faith restored in romantic guys lol

[shaheen]

Depends what you define as romantic.

[**BeKi**]

doing romantic spur of the moment stuff and telling your girl sweet things and such...basically doing romantic stuff!

[shaheen]

:S. Isn't that just being normal.

[DJ Beau J]

relationships suck:)

You love, you lose and only then do you learn.


relationships DONT suck, they only suck if you have bad one and that is the problem. Somebody has a a bad relationship or a few bad relationships and thats it!, they think it's the end of their relationship experience and that they suck. It's never ending really...

people who have bad relationships say that relationships suck
people who are in a happy relationship say they are awesome

where do you draw the line?

nowhere...it's never ending

[**BeKi**]

^^ hey thats quite the true

[HoLLY]

people who have bad relationships say that relationships suck

My point exactly :cry: Hence the reason I have very little expectations and little trust in most people. Quite sad really :(

[SeXaY_sArA]

All relationships are good until they end...bad relationships shouldnt happen, if a guy or girl is treating you bad you should just leave them straight away and not stick around to turn the relationship you have with them bad...if you can make sense of that....

[shaheen]

All relationships are not good, some girls/guys stay in a relationship cause they're scared of what their partners might do to them if they left, they might be in the relationship for other reasons besides happiness or whatever and it could be ruining them inside, and for a relationship to end it has to be bad first, so it can't be good till it ends.

[SeXaY_sArA]

^^ true that too how people may be scared to leave a partner because what of they may do...i know people who went through stuff like that, and did kind of expierance that myself, so yes i am going to contradict myself and agree that some relationships are bad...

[stephy]

shaheen.. no offense but imo.. i dont think that you should be giving so much "advice" about this seeing as ur in your first "relationship" and therefore have never been through a breakup or anything of that sort.

[_B[a]Bii-G[u]rL_]

i think relationships are awesome, but its upsetting to see how people abuse the trust in relationships and take things for granted like you dont mean anything to them i also dislike guys/girls who are shallow enough to be with someone just to f**k them no offence to anyone but that is just really low

[shaheen]

shaheen.. no offense but imo.. i dont think that you should be giving so much "advice" about this seeing as ur in your first "relationship" and therefore have never been through a breakup or anything of that sort.

Where the **** did I give any advice? I fucking voiced my fucking opinion, like I always say, don't like what I say I seriously couldn't care less.

[shaheen]

^^ true that too how people may be scared to leave a partner because what of they may do...i know people who went through stuff like that, and did kind of expierance that myself, so yes i am going to contradict myself and agree that some relationships are bad...

But I don't get it though, why are people are afraid of their partners afraid to speak up while during the relationship to their parents or friends or the cops but once the relationship is over they talk? it shouldn't be that way.

[SeXaY_sArA]

Well when their out of the relationship they realise that they have all these people for support...and i dont know about most people but when im with someone that person becomes the main person in your life, besides family and stuff, but they are one of the people you trust the most, and when they start abusing you and stuff you kind of think that there isnt anyone else there to help you or that is there that will support them

[_B[a]Bii-G[u]rL_]

i think some of the time they don't talk about it, is because they want people to think their in a great relationship they do it to save face im not saying everyone does it for that reason but i know a couple of people who didnt say anything because of that

[shaheen]

Yeah, its true that person in your life becomes the main person but they shouldn't effect you, like what they say or do shouldn't change who you are, if they want to change you then its clear they aint the one for you.

[SeXaY_sArA]

Theres always different reasons for why people stay in relationships like that, everyone is different and they think differently...but its so sad when i see people staying in a relationship that is basically killing them inside and theres and they dont accept your help when you offer it :'(

[shaheen]

I didn't know my gf at all during her past relationship but shes told me a bit, and she used to tell me how she wasn't even allowed to talk to her close friends or even cousins and she was a totally different person, it shouldn't be that way, a relationship is meant to be joyous and memorable, not a plight of suffering.

[**BeKi**]

it becomes a mental thing too though shaheen. if someone is in an abusive relationship most of them dont just go 'fuk this im outta here'. in some of the relationships the male usually breaks down the girls self esteem and crap and makes her feel like theyre the only person that would ever want them and that no one else cares about them

[SeXaY_sArA]

Most girls who dont stand up for themselves in relationships do have self esteem problems, this is from what ive noticed with all my friends and sometimes even me. like not even really bad relationships but just normal ones, if the guy does something the girl doesnt like or something she wont say anything because she just doesnt have the confidence to stand up for herself

[**BeKi**]

^^ or they dont want to lose the guy

[4dchix]

When i wasnt on MU i met this chick then went out with her.

We would see each other every weekend for like lyk 3 months. When we went out she would go out with her friends, and id be cool with it only untill i found out she was going out wit guys that would drive and she would be the only chick...so 3 guys over 18 and one chick....these guys where trying to hit on her i knew and she just went along with it i only found out after a month...as our relationship got longer i noticed a change in the way she was acting towards me and trying to have arguments with me...she got pissed off at me because i was too nice....wtf!! Anywayz i started changing but i still loved her. After our 3 months it was all going down hill we where fighting then making up....untill i recieved a call from one of her friends telling me she was cheating on me for the whole 3 months we where going out and she was never loyal to me and she was cheating on me with guys over 18. Now i dont speak to the bitch never want to see her face again!!!

[`h0tnw3t_faiiriee]

hmmmm in this thread, has any one said any good relationship stories or is every one concentrating on the negative? cos it is easier..

[shaheen]

Mines not had any rough patches yet but most of these stories are in the past tense so don't think its valid to share since mine isn't over yet, and won't be.

[HoLLY]

^^It's not easier, there's just more bad things than good; adding to my point that relationships suck.

One good thing I remember, was when my brother went overseas for 5 weeks and I got to house-sit for him, meaning I had the house to myself for 5 weeks:D

My bf at the time stayed with me most nights when I stayed over there and it was just like being a married couple:) Although neither of us can cook soo that kinda sucked and he took advantage of the house and had friends over quite a bit, but then again so did I, but that did cause a few arguments.

Come to think of it, I can't think of a time where it was 100% good...lol but that's as close to it as I can recall. Most of the time I admit it was fun having all the freedom & being able to be alone IN PEACE...so yes, I can say that was a positive.

My brother's going away again this summer for almost 2 months but this time I don't have anyone special:( < But I guess I can use the opportunity to party every night :D Wooooo

[4dchix]

lets change the topic a little...if you have a BF or GF how did you meet??

[shaheen]

Through a friend.

[JUZT!N]

lets change the topic a little...if you have a BF or GF how did you meet??

i meet my gf through my friends gf,there best friends we just all meet up one day and we just connected.

[SwEeTasSuGaR]

I am romantic about things...but seriously i'm fully over guys and just hooking up with them, no thats a lie I dont mind it but i HATE it when they pretend they want to keep seeing you and say how much they like u and u go out a couple more times..and then they screw u over.........which makes me assume that they never like any of the chix in the first place, they just wanted a piece of ass. But if one of the guy's that i've hooked up with goes and tries to "bust a move" on otha chix like that i will seriously slap the hell out of them. but on a *lighter* note i prefer singledom!! i'm actually seeing this guy who is the most gorgeous metro ever (gotta luv fake-gay guys lol) but yer i just think that guys that pretend they really are into a chick then play them can hav their balls chopped off and served to starving africans

[Tanele]

LOL i met my bf over funkysexycool (the net) *blushes!* and we've been together for a little over a year and a half
But i tell people i know him through a friend :P

[ripe-n-ready]

LOL i met my bf over funkysexycool (the net) *blushes!* and we've been together for a little over a year and a half
But i tell people i know him through a friend :P


ohh i did that too!! we went out for a long time too, over a year. i was kinda embarrassed to tell my friendz coz many pplz think it sadd or like a badd thnig to met some1 off the net but itz not.......some timez u met weird pplz but most of the time you met great ppl

[^BaYBee^DoLL^]

i met tanele through my ex boyfriend
awwww :)
lol
love ya tanele!!

[Tanele]

lol yeah me too ripe and ready - LMAO

aww i love you too Baybee^Doll, your ex scares me!!! :P

[K.BRO]

i have never had a boyfriend before so i wouldnt know:) *crying on the inside people lol* but i have met and had something happen through friends, friends, and actually through babysitting...but thats another story lol.

[**BeKi**]

i want a boyfriend :(

[K.BRO]

who wants a boyfriend!!! lol im so bitter i glare at couples when i see them holding hands:P, But then my friend said to me the other day "if u have gone for this long with no boyfriend, u can go for longer" lol. Stupid friend, but u gotta admit single=fun:D....sometimes lol

[AzN_RaVeN]

i have never had a boyfriend before so i wouldnt know:) *crying on the inside people lol* but i have met and had something happen through friends, friends, and actually through babysitting...but thats another story lol.

*Ahem ahem* Sorry, just clearing my throat :)

[K.BRO]

lol, Petey boy ur my hero:P

[pinklash]

the "kermit the frog" i dated was 5 years older than me.. and im 16.... you think a 21 year old male would be more mature than me... HELL NO
i found out that after dating him for around 2 months that he waas still with his lil GIRLFRIEND..... grrrr... gotta hate that.....

[s3xxii_sh0rtass]

LOL i met my bf over funkysexycool (the net) *blushes!* and we've been together for a little over a year and a half
But i tell people i know him through a friend :P

OMG ahaha me and jimmy aka boosted_macooo we met thru auspal and i tell everyoone i met him thru friends too but auspal.com and funkysexycool.com are a great way to make friends and stuff and im glad i met him hes perfect!

my last two boyfriends have been the worst ever one was lebo one was greek they both lasted 7 1/2 months.. weird huh? ..anyway well it was good while it lasted but i never got thoes speical gifts i never got no surprised all i got was them both cheating on me more than once. there was a time when i didnt know and then there was a time when i new but i let it pass cuz liked them so much and i didnt want to lose them but of course that day came n the both broke up me.. when it should of been me breakin up with them. but what do u expect they were good looking and sleazy i wass so stupid. so i havent been with a guy in 6 months ive hook up twice and then i met jimmyy and jimmy is my *ELMO* hess bootiful in so many ways and he has the keys to my heart he isnt sleazy thank god and he has full respect hes a great guy with a good heart and im so glad ive finnaly found the right guy and im not goin for the di**heads anymore lol .. THANK YOU AUSPAL.COM!! hahaha

[**BeKi**]

^^ IM SO GOING THERE. lol

single is fun when you can get with, but what if theres no one willing?! i need someone who is very accepting of personality and doesnt care about looks, if anyone saw me theyd agree :) *nods* lol

[s3xxii_sh0rtass]

yehhh badd huhh theres not many of thoes guys out there :( lol but hey there is somewhere.. nah dont say that i bet your gorjuzzz if all else fails join up to auspal plenty of single hotties there lmaoo;)

[**BeKi**]

^^ lol trust me i fell down the ugly tree and hit every possible branch on the way down. im meant to be seeing a guy tonight, but i duno if its going to work because of parentals :( but theres a ten seater spa involved :) lol

[K.BRO]

lmao^^^ hmmm these internet dating sites seem to have worked out for u people. *thinks* auspal eyyyy. lol. *goes to auspal*

[**BeKi**]

OMG im seeing a certain someone tonight and he is so cute and sweet and has the same humour as me and i cant wait :) *jumps for joy* ....not that im excited or anything *cool face*

[K.BRO]

awww im so happy for u becky *beams with happieness* ur all so happy dammit! oh i can feel my jealous alter ego comming on:)

[s3xxii_sh0rtass]

Becky goood lucky gorjuz i wish you the best and i hope everything goes well!!:D andddd i hope tha parentals arnet being tight lmaoo.. GOOD LUCK mwaaaa

[muzza*nesa]

wow! shaheen ur like realy deep!!! i like that, its hot as.... yeah i agree, i wish i could find a boy who thinks the world of me:)
hmmmm i should b soooo lucky....

EDIT:Please try and type like a human, as opposed to a monkey on crack :)

[Nate]

awww im so happy for u becky *beams with happieness* ur all so happy dammit! oh i can feel my jealous alter ego comming on:)

Don't worry Kate, we can drown our sorrows away together :( *reaches for bottle of vodka*

[K.BRO]

good thinking nate, lets drown our sorrows with a wild orgy:D, whips may or may not be involved lol.

[**BeKi**]

OMG everything nearly stuffed up, working it out now...sadness :( lol. think i could join the drinking? *hopeful look*

[K.BRO]

come one, come all lol. Its a party:D

[**BeKi**]

heck yes! :) :)

[Nate]

good thinking nate, lets drown our sorrows with a wild orgy:D, whips may or may not be involved lol.

Ooo i like the way this is headed :wink: :p

[K.BRO]

lol, ill show all of u happy couples!! ALL OF YOU!! its FUN to be single *trys to convince herself* Nate it seems as though the world is relying on us and this orgy, pete and becky you are also invited:D

[**BeKi**]

gah everythings trying to get worked out im so scared about who might be picking me up :S lol

[K.BRO]

lol, aww i wish i could go out tonight. I JUST WANNA LIVE, WHY WONT U LET ME LIVE!!!, :) but i have work tomorrow morning :( ruins my life *runs away crying* and im seeing my dad tonight. But its stupid, friday cant go out cos work tomorrow morning, saturday im too fukd after 9 hours of work to do anything but sleep, and sunday cant do anything cos school on monday:'( !!! its not fair, i wanna work on sundays on go out on friday and saturdays:(. p.s: good luck with tonight becky;) tell me everything tomorrow lol.

[**BeKi**]

^^ lol thanks kate. work sucks it ruins everything! us people so young shouldnt have to have these kind of commitments *nods* i have to work four hours tomorrow, hopefully ill get SOME form of sleep

[Nate]

lol, aww i wish i could go out tonight. I JUST WANNA LIVE, WHY WONT U LET ME LIVE!!!, :) but i have work tomorrow morning :( ruins my life *runs away crying* and im seeing my dad tonight. But its stupid, friday cant go out cos work tomorrow morning, saturday im too fukd after 9 hours of work to do anything but sleep, and sunday cant do anything cos school on monday:'( !!! its not fair, i wanna work on sundays on go out on friday and saturdays:(. p.s: good luck with tonight becky;) tell me everything tomorrow lol.

On weekends i only work on sundays from 3-8, which means i can go out friday and saturday night :D

[K.BRO]

well fuk u:)

[Nate]

well fuk u:)

Oh and i forgot to mention it's time and a half on sunday, so i earn like $80 for those 5hours :)

[shaheen]

wow! shaheen ur like realy deep!!! i like that, its hot as.... yeah i agree, i wish i could find a boy who thinks the world of me:)
hmmmm i should b soooo lucky....

EDIT:Please try and type like a human, as opposed to a monkey on crack :)

Eeer.. thanks? I wasn't even trying to be deep, I actually was making it brief so I didn't sound like a dick.

[K.BRO]

Oh and i forgot to mention it's time and a half on sunday, so i earn like $80 for those 5hours :)

stupid Nate and his great job that earns lots of money *shakes fist* $80 for 5 hours thats insane! *puts on a balaclava and waits outside nates job to mug him:D*